Challenge yourself this year to reprogram your way of thinking through reading, writing and finding your purpose. In July of 2014 I ran a red light with a friend of mine and my son, who was 5 years old at the time and all I can remember is feeling a high impact jolt which obliterated the entire front end of my car. I was afraid to turn back, wondering if my son was alive; thankfully I heard his innocent voice, “Daddy are you ok?” From the moment I heard the sound of my own blood, my son, I cried and I knew it wasn’t our time, our dreams had not yet been fulfilled.
The reality hit when the officer pulled me aside and said, “I don’t know how you all walked away from this alive.” If it would have been a truck that hit us that day, we would be dead. The impact of this was significant; both physically and mentally. Each one of us with our own scars from that day. My son is almost always nervous before getting into a car, regardless of who is driving. I am grateful for the second chance I have received, for the dreams I’ve had for my life since the car crash, have begun to manifest.
REALITY CHECK. Watch and take it all in.
We know we get caught up in our busy day to day lives and find it hard to reflect and ask ourselves, “If you died tonight can you say you found what your purpose was and fulfilled the dreams you had been dying to put into reality?” Do you sit at your desk job, doing the same thing over and over, caught in a routine without even questioning whether or not it is what you are born to do? Is this my purpose?
Some of us may have witnessed men and women battle cancer for years and refuse to die until they accomplish their dreams and live their purpose that God has put them on the earth for. People, we have a purpose and we are only given so long to find out what it is and to live it! Watch the video… sometimes it is only by the power of our dreams that has kept us alive. Dreams are what keep us going, keep us focused and motivated.
If some of you are wondering if this is the same Donovan McKenzie that you knew from “back in the day” that is writing this blog with such passion, vulnerability and openness; it is. This is the result of many doors closing and the right ones opening. When you find your purpose, not even your own doubts can stand in your way of your success.
“If you are building your own dreams, you are busy building someone else’s.”
“Purpose is the great divider that separates those who are simply living, from those who are truly alive.”
Loved it!!!! I always say this and it's true; we shouldn't wait for death to remind us we are so much more and should be chasing our dreams! Keep it up your writings are deep and influential
ReplyDeleteYour support and feedback keeps me motivated and provides another perspective. Thank you Amanda, looking forward to hearing from you on the upcoming "Love" blog post.
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